In Phoenix, one
fine day in the Fall of 2016, I saw a friend from
across the not-so-green way, on the wannabe golf
course, mid-morning with a spray can, spraying what
looked like three or four foot circles in the half
grass I refer to as the ‘dead rough.’ Economics
rendered our “Practice Green” to become the
“Practice Dirt” with more challenges than ants.
“Aldo?” I
called out, downwind, smelling a chemical odor from
the safety of my yard. I lifted my shoulders, palms
out and slightly raised, with a question on my face.
Without
looking up, he said “Ants, Peter! When I stop to
align my chip shot the damn ants crawl up my shoes,
not to mention my club.”
Then looking
up at my white shorts and white polo shirt with
white socks and sandals, he laughingly asked, “Are
you the Gandhi of ants, like killing a tiny ant is
BAD KARMA?” Aldo continued, “Too darn many ants in my way,
and they bite, darn them.”
I was not
sure how to answer the Gandhi question, but I
admired Aldo’s determination. Ants can be a real
pain anywhere they live, even if they don’t bite. He
bent over and went back to intently spraying.
Aldo
continued without looking up, “This is specific to
where my ball usually lands.”
Suddenly it
seemed hilarious to tackle the ants with a can of
ant killer spray two anthills at a time. I know a
thing or two about ants, and several great memories
came flooding back. I laughed out loud, and asked
Aldo if he had a case or two of ant killer.
He stood up suddenly, asking, “You think I need a
case or two?” mirroring my question mark body
language. I nodded “yes.”
“Wanna tell me why, Mister Story Teller?” he smiled
while walking up to the fence.
With a laugh, I started telling Aldo about the first
time I had a face to face confrontation with ants a
month after Judy and I moved into the cabin up on
The Divide. Suddenly another ant story from
five years later came crashing in with such force,
my first story fell apart with a few stammers and
grunts.
“Ah, let me write it down first,” I said, “I need to
separate these bigger than life stories no matter
how tiny they are!” I pointed at another anthill
just outside my fence.
I humbly bowed like I imagined Gandhi would, backing
away with small steps. Besides, Aldo still carried
the can of ant killer in his right hand.
When I started to separate the stories, I realized
these two ant stories were five years apart with a
lot of people stories in between. The stories came
pouring out in a flood. All I needed was to organize
them, and then edit out more than half the words. So
in truth, Aldo inspired this book!
I silently say, “Thank you, Aldo, I think.”
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